Handling Your Family Drama at Thanksgiving Without Losing Your Mind
Chelsea Adams Chelsea Adams

Handling Your Family Drama at Thanksgiving Without Losing Your Mind

The winter holidays promise warmth, connection, and celebration, but for many adult children of emotionally immature parents, people-pleasers, and BIPOC young adults, they also bring a tidal wave of stress. You might find yourself bracing for passive-aggressive comments, unsolicited advice or judgment about your romantic or work life, an itinerary pre-made for you, or the pressure to play peacemaker.

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Overcoming Fear of Change This Fall
Chelsea Adams Chelsea Adams

Overcoming Fear of Change This Fall

As the air turns crisp and the days grow shorter, fall often ushers in more than just pumpkin spice and cozy sweaters. For many, it marks a season of transitions—new school routines, shifting work demands, changing daylight hours, or even subtle internal stirrings that hint at something shifting.

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How do I start feeling positive emotions?
Chelsea Adams Chelsea Adams

How do I start feeling positive emotions?

For many trauma survivors, this question can feel strangely backward. Wouldn’t it make more sense to struggle with negative emotions such as anger, fear, or sadness, rather than the good ones? Wouldn’t people who have been through so much pain be so welcoming and ready to feel positive moments? Yet for adult children of emotionally immature parents, adult children of alcoholics, and anyone healing from relational trauma, accessing positive emotions like joy, pride, and connection can feel difficult – due to the vulnerability it takes to feel good.

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What is bottom-up therapy?
Chelsea Adams Chelsea Adams

What is bottom-up therapy?

Therapy is becoming more accessible and less stigmatized, and that’s a beautiful shift. But with so many practitioners and the alphabet soup of modalities available, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. If you’ve ever wondered, “Why didn’t therapy work for me?” or “Is there a deeper way to heal?”, you’re not alone.

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Am I conflict avoidant?
Chelsea Adams Chelsea Adams

Am I conflict avoidant?

Conflict is a natural part of human relationships. Yet for many adult children of emotionally immature parents, narcissistic caregivers, or alcoholic family systems, the idea of conflict can feel threatening, destabilizing, or even shameful. If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Am I conflict avoidant?”—know that your question is valid, and your concern is deeply human.

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When The Helpers Carry Their Own Trauma
Chelsea Adams Chelsea Adams

When The Helpers Carry Their Own Trauma

Trauma leaves an imprint not just on the mind, but on the body, relationships, and sense of self. Whether it stems from a single event or accumulates over time, trauma can quietly shape how we move through the world. For survivors and helping professionals alike, the effects of trauma on mental health are profound, yet often underestimated at a glance. It’s important to know that you’re not alone and that healing is possible.

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The Self-Improvement in Therapy that Leads to Community Wellbeing
Chelsea Adams Chelsea Adams

The Self-Improvement in Therapy that Leads to Community Wellbeing

Many people still think of therapy as something you turn to only when life feels unmanageable — when you're in crisis, overwhelmed, or at a breaking point. But what if therapy wasn’t just a lifeline in hard times? What if it was also a launchpad for growth, clarity, and confidence?

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What can be accomplished in a weekend EMDR therapy intensive?
Chelsea Adams Chelsea Adams

What can be accomplished in a weekend EMDR therapy intensive?

If you’ve ever felt like traditional weekly therapy just doesn’t fit your life—or your urgency—you’re not alone. For activists navigating burnout, busy mothers juggling endless responsibilities, young professionals managing transitions, and doctors with limited time, healing can feel like a luxury that’s always out of reach. But what if meaningful progress didn’t require months of appointments? A weekend therapy intensive offers a focused, accelerated path to emotional clarity and healing.

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